I've been with this guy for 4 months now... 2 and a half away from each other. But we have reunited again and everything is so wonderful, I mean of course we are getting used to be with each other, now that he's back. we have normal issues, as ';normal couples'; do, but I feel like I'm falling in love with him, I think about him all the time. Every time I kiss him I just think of how strong my feelings are for him, and there are a lot of things that I want to do for him and make his life easier!
But someone told me that I couldn't say that I'm in love with him because we haven't gone through hard and difficult moments together, we haven't share too much because of the amount of time we have been apart and that's how you can tell if you really are in love with each other... Is it true?? What do you think?Can you be in love with someone even though you haven't been through difficult moments together?
The person who told you that you must go through hard times in order to love is nuts. At my age, I've know many couples who have lived together for decades who haven't had ';hard times.'; The most successful marriages are between two people who love each other and share the same goals. When ';hard times'; arrive they are able to lean on each other for strength.
I would say that early on a relationship begins with infatuation and over time it grows into love - if you're lucky. While sex is important a relationship must include so much else. It sounds to me that you have a good start on the road to love.Can you be in love with someone even though you haven't been through difficult moments together?
THAT PERSON WHO TOLD YOU THAT IS STUPID!!!! they mist be miserable or something. Just because you didn't go thru hard enuff times just means you two are good together!!! Sure, later on you will go thru hard times, but just because you haven't yet doesn't mean you can't be in love.
Sure, what makes you think love has to be difficult?
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