I started off txting him getting, i got his number off my sister.
We started txting each other a lot and got to know each other well.
Some way or another after txting him for awhile i became very close too him, We would tell each other nearly all our secrets, tell each other what was happening in our lives, give each other advice, and then if one of us started this thing were we would call each other things like young lad, or young lady, and use words sorta back in those days, but it's a thing that just we would do, somehow one of us started it and the other one just knew what we were doing with out saying, whatt? like you know you could just connect in that way.
And instead of crying myself to sleep at night he would make me smile and feel sooo happy and NO matter what mood i was in he could always make me happy.
But then after awhile we kinda stopped txting each other slowly but somehow we did.
But then my life felt so lonely like i was missing something in it, my heart felt empty.
I know what hes like i have seen lot's of pictures of him heard about him a lot [from my sister cause she has met him]
I have even talked to him on the phone.
Anyway a lot of time has passed and things have happened.
My sister is now going out with him, except he moved and so did we so i guess there kinda in a long distant relationship, anyway that's not the point i recently started txting him again and have got very close with him again, i know we can't be together because he has my sister, but that's fine with me.
But i have really strong feelings for him even just thinking about him can make my heart skip a beat, and some night i can't get to sleep for ages cause i lay in bed thinking of him.
Anyway can you fall in love with someone even if you haven't met them, but you know nearly everything about them, and have these feelings that are very strong.
Btw i am gonna meet him one day i am, maybe this year even!
So can you fall in actual love even if you haven't met them?
And when you do meet them you still have those feelings and maybe they will be stronger or maybe they might be gorn.
Well yeah.
Cheers, Em.Can you love someone you haven't actually met?
This is an essay not a question.Can you love someone you haven't actually met?
I have one time. I got to know someone on the internet %26amp; there was a STRONG connection %26amp; all ways possible of communication. The love was there from both of us. He fell in love HARD for me, more then I did for him,but I did fall for him. We met later.
It does happen, but NOT always.
Yeah i believe you can THINK your in love with someone that you haven't met but when you meet there is a high chance that love would fade
sorry x
what?
no
I've done it twice...
Well some people (Like yourself) can and will fall in love with people they've never met. I think maybe the whole time he has liked you, but maybe didn't know how u felt about him so he didn't tell you. He might be one of them guy's that are just going out with your sister to see what u'll do or see if u care at all. I think u should just get over him thou because it's not worth fighting over a guy exp if he's dating your sister, and long distent relationship's never work for anyone. Plus once u meet him your feelings might not be the same. **True me ... I've went on and off with a guy for 3 years and just finally we now got over each other and realized its not ment to be right now, but he lived near me then moved to FL wit his family then just recently came back on his own and when he left n came back our feelings were the same, but were just not ment to be together.** So I think maybe u should just try and get over him before u hurt yourself or ur sister. Plus not to sound mean, but I think ur confusing love with something way diffrent. It takes alot to actually truely love some and really know them. I mean yea there may be feelings for one another, but I really think u should just try and move on! Hope I helped!! Good luck!!
Of course you can fall in love with somebody you haven't met in person if you know them. Love is an emotion, and if you can have an emotional connection with somebody, you can love them.
Love takes knowing somebody very well, and being emotionally connected to them, not seeing them and being physically connected.
Anything that people do physically or in person is meant to compliment the love you already have for them. It's supposed to be an expression of your love for them, and not something a relationship is built on.
An emotional connection is an emotional connection, no doubt about that. And love is an emotion, completely not based on the physical, although of course having a physical attraction helps. But you know what he looks like, that's enough.
Trust me on this no and says alot about the guy if he's seeing your sister and texting you. ??? Cmon hes a guy how do you think you look from his point of view? Don't depend on a guy to make you feel good you got you and that should be enough. If anything you should be offended hes still texting you just friendly or not it aint right
Yes, you can fall in love without meeting someone. Although, I think what you're talking about seems more like a crush. You've never even seen a picture of him. And if your sister is going out with him then chances are he's around her age - especially since he was in her phone. And you're probably the younger one. How old are you? I'm guessing 14 -15 by the way you talk. So it wasn't love dear - far from it. It was a little crush.
Love is not something that exists because of physical contact. All the religious people and their love of their various gods is a definitive example of that.
I know from years of handling internet communication that a person must realize that regardless of the medium, human-to-human communication is still interaction between humans. The presence of a face or body does not change the form of identity. Even if one attempts to behave differently than they would in person, that is still attached to their identity just as when someone in person trys to act differently.
All the traits that are important to a human, personality, can be conveyed just fine through words. I'm sure blind people are experts on this matter, the lack of a connection between a person's face and getting to know the person.
All that exists between humans ... exists. The medium does not matter. Yes, it can be true love even if you have not yet been with him.
Furthermore you have indeed ';met'; him. To meet is to encounter a specific identity. And you have certainly come to know the identity that is him. Your heart no doubt has the same experience and sensations that could define the act of meeting someone.
So quite simply you should try speaking differently in that regard, specifying ';physically'; or something.
oh sweetie im going through this right now.
but no sister involved.
i don't think its anything more that just wanting a person to give you that kind of affection
like for me right now im in houston and im talking to this guy who lives in a city close to my town back home.
and im secluded up here and when he started messaging me it seemed as though i had ';actual'; feelings for him but im realizing now that its because im vulnerable and my emotions are on high and alot of other things so my advice to you is just let it go.
hes dating your sister now and if he had actual feelings like you did for him he wouldnt be dating her now would he?
What you're talking about is not really ';love';.
Colloquially, that's more what you'd describe as ';being in love with the IDEA of love';.
Sure, you can like some of the qualities you see in him but you don't really know him well enough to truly ';love'; him.
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