Is there ever a GOOD TIME to get even with someone, or is it always better to just

smile and pretend like you know nothing? You know ppl say ';kill them with kindness';? Well how much kindness does it take, or should I just be patient and kind with this person (the ex wife). She doesn't bad mouth me to my knowledge, it's just the tit-for-tat things that will make anyone say ';Woman, grow up, take care of yourself, and quit being selfish when it comes to your child!!';





comments?Is there ever a GOOD TIME to get even with someone, or is it always better to just
There's a very fine line between love and hate. If she's still able to ';yank your chain'; then you probably still have feelings for her. Don't do anything to get even. Never get down in the mud to wrestle with a pig. Telling her to grow up or quit being selfish is just a waste of your breath. Don't play her game, take the high road and be better than she is. When your child is older, they'll notice. Just take a step back and think what a mature adult would do in that situation... then do it.





Good luck, and remember this too shall pass...Is there ever a GOOD TIME to get even with someone, or is it always better to just
Dont go there to get even it will back fire and you will be on her level and your better than that. these are probably the reasons your husband and her ex left her. when you enter a realtionship with a child already in it this is what you signed up for. your doing a good job keep up the good work being the better person for the child sake and your realtionship with your husband.
An ex-wife is never going to evaporate. There will always be difficulties and if you ignore her now, instead of getting even, your life will be a lot less complicated. Getting even always comes back to haunt me--even though it would feel so darn wonderful to see the other person get what they deserve. Then I'm even angrier, and I still haven't gotten to see them squirm--they can just laugh at me for trying. I say, as frustrating as it is, try to let it go and be glad she's the ';ex'; and you're the ';current';. She can't change THAT one :)
Just act like what she does or says has no affect on you. If she is trying to get to that would be the best way to handle it.