Why is it so hard to get over someone even if they were controlling you in the relationship?

I broke up with my ex over a month ago and I find that I still am having a hard time with the break up. As long as I don't see him or talk to him I'm fine but the moment I see him I get all weird and desperate again I guess. I broke up with him because he told me he loved me but didn't really and he was controlling what I was doing. I am curious how do you get over something like that? I haven't been in a relationship since 4 years prior to this relationship. So I don't know maybe is it I'm just lonely?? Any thoughts??Why is it so hard to get over someone even if they were controlling you in the relationship?
Getting over someone, takes time, but as you said ';as long as I don't see him or talk to him I'm fine';. That's the key. It's a new life for you now. Take time to heal, and use your freedom to do all things you like to do, and attempt new things. If you find you are lonely, seek new friendships, those that are positive and supportive. Find your creative side and focus on your strengths, you'd be surprised what the end results could be. Get involved in your community for helping the less fortunate, and/or take up new programs that will help you achieve new goals i.e classes, sports, etc...try to adapt more with the new friendships to have fun together, and keep the dating scene on the back burner using at least the two year rule, to see your own accomplishments and reflect on yourself for change. You will not know what you are capable of unless you commit to yourself to stay out of the dating scene for that two year period. Hope that was helpful. Good luck!Why is it so hard to get over someone even if they were controlling you in the relationship?
Ok you are just lonely u are used to having this person in your life to comfort you and it will take time but eventually you will get over him. You shouldnt be with someone who is controlling. Just remember one thing. You have to be okay being by yourself before you can be with someone else. You can't rely on anyone else for your happiness.
b/c they are still controlling u after the relationship??
I think it's because you become accustomed to the control. Your body almost needs it. It's like you want a nice guy but when you get one the bad ones look so good.

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