How do you deal with missing someone, even if your not sure that your doing the right thing?

have u ever missed someone so bad that you dont know how they can be getting along without you. i brokeup with my gf 4weeks ago, i called it but i think that she wanted it more than i did, just didnt wanna be the bad guy. we were together about 4years. i thought it would be easier, but i find myself hoping that everytime the phone rings, maybe its her. every car i see looks like hers, even tho it looks nothing like it. i wanna drive past her house just to see if she is home, but i wont let myself. my friends call and wanna hangout, but i just dont feel like puting on the show on the outside like im doing just fine, when im dying on the inside. i just wanna know if there is anything i can do that will help. i cant believe that im having such a hard time, im tougher than this. im always answering other ppls quesions on here, but i dont seem to know the answer to my own. i guess just any input that you guys can give me will help. i just wanna get back to the way it was. i wanna be myselfHow do you deal with missing someone, even if your not sure that your doing the right thing?
I can feel the heartache you have because i've been on your shoes before...i was lucky i have best friends who supported me and help me gain my confident again..i think what you have to do is go out with your friends, try to have laugh with them, its not easy but at least you can forget her for awhile and do something that you never doing it while you were with her, and focus on it..do whatever you fancy most in your life (i mean your hobby), when your mind is wondering about your ex, try to write down what is the worse thing that you dont like about her when you were together..i hope it will work...How do you deal with missing someone, even if your not sure that your doing the right thing?
Biggest fact in the world is that the time has a solution for every problem.





Just keep your self busy for atleast 2 monts and see that u


will never feel somthing missed.
Four years is such a long time. It's normal for you to miss her. What you need to do is think about the reason for the break up instead of concentrating on all the great things and good times. It's possible for you two to get back together, but right now, I think the best thing for you to do is hang out with friends. I'm sure they will understand how you are feeling and hopefully, you are close enough to them to talk about how you are doing. If you are needing some self improvement, nows the time to fix things. Get yourself feeling healthy, good mentally and physically. I'm not sure what can help except for time and some self examination and good times with good friends.
how can you say she wanted this more than you did beacuse of that were true why are you pondering over her right now. its clear to me you in love with this girl and was just afraid to see that she may just be the one. four years is a long time and if you werent commited it would not have leasted. who wants to go past their exes house???????????really now. so my advice is, think carefully how you feel about her and call her if you love her before its too late and she really moves on. she wont wait forever even of she does love you, she is going to think you the one who broke it. so the only way to get back the way it was is if you tell her how you feel, and dont be afraid of expressing how you feel.
I can see what you mean,





Love is a very powerful thing and it can hit even the strongest of people.





If you really want to be with her give her a call and ask her if she'll try again, if the answer is no or thats just not what you want right now, they stay strong, go out with mates, and have fun playing the single life, you don't have to keep all that hurt bottled up either, speak to someone close to you who you trust.





I know it's hard and will hurt for a while, but once it heals up, your find someone even better that deserves you.





Goodluck x