Monday, August 9, 2010

Could you love someone even if they were physically ';fake';?

Please don't be offended by my inclusion of the word ';fake'; I am not implying that cosmetic surgery makes a person any less real, I simply used the term for convinence.





Situation:


You have fallen in love with a woman/man. She is the most amazing thing in your eyes. Has an incredible heart and soul, is kind to everyone, doesn't get jealous of others, isn't spitefull and doesn't wish misafortune on others. She loves you too. She shows you so much kindness and caring even when you don't deserve it. She's hard working, open minded, objective, friendly and funny. However, she has had extensive cosmetic surgery. Since she was 17 she had been altering her physical appearance and finnally stopped when she turned 20. You met her when she was 21, you've been with her for almost a year and a half, she has now confessed to you that she is ';prodominantly fake';


Although she looks beautiful and is beutiful on the inside, her physically beauty was bought, and isn't natural.





How do you feel about this? Does it change the way you feel about her?





Please substitute the ';she'; to ';he'; to suit you if you are female/homosexual male.


I'm interested in feedback from both genders regardless of orientation.


Will you let this interfere with your relationship?Could you love someone even if they were physically ';fake';?
To me that's no different than somebody going on a diet or wearing make up. She obviously did those things to look good on the outside....she's entitled to feel good about herself. If I was seeing a guy whose good looks were ';bought'; I'd think----nicely spent! ;)Could you love someone even if they were physically ';fake';?
I wouldn't let it ruin anything. If you genuinely like the girl and you have a connection with her, surely nothing else should matter? But I have to admit, I wouldn't go for a ';fake'; man, I like the natural look, but thats just personal preference. If you like her, carry on as you are it shouldn't make a difference.
no you should stop loving her now that you know this info.


you loved her before for different reasons but if fakeness is something your agianst then you should just talk to her
i never look at appearance i notice that after i get to know their attractive personality

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