How can I keep my cool even when someone pisses me off so bad?

Recently some chica has been calling me out to fight with her. But I have alot of other things toworry about besides getting a bruised eye. Right now I'm about to kick her *** and if i do, I'll sabotage everything I've worked for in school.How can I keep my cool even when someone pisses me off so bad?
Why you lettin some skank rule your emotions?





You need to take deep breaths when you feel like ur gettin hostile and walk away. You sound like a much better person than her and you won't ever have to see her again after you leave school.





Unless, of course, you got nothing better to do but whoop up on some booty and maybe ruin your rep in the process. I wouldn't let nobody beat up on me if I'm cornered but my philosophy is that I finish fights....I don't start em.





Is it worth it?How can I keep my cool even when someone pisses me off so bad?
Just be the bigger woman and back down. You've got your future at stake. In twenty years when you look back will it have been worth it to fight and ruin your schooling? I doubt it so just let her brag and boast about how your a sissy because you wont fight. It will die out eventually. Either that or else put on a ski mask and go beat her with a pillow case full of oranges or soap. Just make sure you have an allibie for the time that you beat her a$$. Or else just cut her damn brake lines. (I was just kidding on those last to parts) I would just ignore her and not risk screwing your bright future up. Be the better person and don't fight, unless you have to. Good Luck.
YOU MAY BE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT, BUT IF YOU LOSE YOUR TEMPER, YOU LOSE WHAT IS IMPORTANT. BE THE BETTER PERSON. WALK AWAY. THERE ARE MORE IMPORTANT THINGS IN LIFE THAN RESPONDING TO A BULLY. SHE JUSTS WANTS TO GET A RISE OUT OF YOU AND BRING YOU DOWN TO HER LEVEL. SHE'S PROBABLY JEALOUS THAT YOU HAVE YOUR LIFE BETTER PUT TOGETHER THAN SHE DOES. YOU ARE WISE TO ADMIT THAT SCHOOL IS MORE IMPORTANT, AND YOU DON'T WANT TO ENDANGER YOUR SUCCESSES THERE.





YOU MAY BE LONELY FOR A SHORT WHILE, BUT I WOULD SUGGEST THAT YOU PULL YOURSELF AWAY FROM THIS KIND OF A PERSON AND FIND A BETTER GROUP WITH WHICH YOU CAN HANG AROUND.





THIS PERSON IS NOT YOUR FRIEND. DO NOT RESPOND TO HER THREATS.





YOU PROBABLY DON'T WANT TO, BUT I THINK YOU SHOULD HAVE A CHAT WITH YOUR FOLKS ABOUT THIS. GO TO THE GUIDANCE DEPARTMENT AND GET SOME ADVICE. PERHAPS OTHER STUDENTS HAVE COMPLAINED ABOUT THIS CHICA AS WELL. THE SCHOOL SHOULD BE AWARE THAT ONE OF THEIR STUDENTS IS CAUSING SO MUCH COMFORT AND SHOULD KEEP AN EYE ON HER.





I DON'T KNOW HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT SEEING A MEMER OF STAFF, BUT REMEMBER, IT IS THEIR MAIN JOB TO TAKE CARE OF AND PROTECT YOU. REALLY!





SURROUND YOURSELF WITH OTHER PEOPLE. DON'T ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE ALONE WITH THIS CHICA.





TAKE ALL THAT PENTUP ANGER AND ENERGY AND THROW IT INTO YOUR STUDIES. I'M PULLING FOR YOU!
Remember not to take life too seriously, as it is only temporary.





If you did something to make her want to beat on you, then ignoring her is not going to make it right. Apologize for whatever you did, and if it was something that ended up costing her money, repay her. Then she will go away.





If she just wants to fight to show off her toughness, remember that you are more evolved than that. Tell her to grow up.
Just ignore her. Be the better person.
you need to remenber what you are working for ....i too have a bad temper but after breaking my hand a few times punching walls and windows i figured it out .......you know it sounds stupid but counting to 10 and deep breathing really does help....step out of the situation and remenber she may be a b$TCH so there must be somthing wrong in her life she doesnt have the good life like you do ...youll do fine i am sure. good luck
you are on good track, concentrate on other thinks you like to accomplish, remind your self you are stronger inside it can not touch you, walk a way, please take care
just ignore her... its not worth it... school's more important
well im probably the bad person to answer this question cause if someone is pissing me off, i will most likely beat the sh*t out of them (or attempt to lol). nobody deserves to be bothered...and if they are, they deserve everything thats coming to them.
I teach. A big problem is kids getting wound up by what others are doing. Often the ones with the shortest tempers get into most trouble.





Just tell her that you don't need to fight her, that it means nothing to you and doing well for yourself does. Keep calm, don't give her power over you. That's what she wants. If you stay completely cool, she will go and find someone else to bother. It is a test, to see if you can stay in control. Don't give up your power. Win.
Simple, just tell her that she isnt worth your time. Cause technically shes not. Do not start anything basically, if she starts to attack ya and punch you, use self defense. Dont go after her. I mean you shouldnt get in trouble for self defense since u are just trying to get the girl off you and get her away from you. IF your parents agree that self defense is good then go with that. Good luck with your whole situation (please put this as best answer)
You're right to worry about your school work over some trash talking girl. It doesn't sound like she is the sharpest tool in the shed if you know what I mean. Everytime she gets on your nerves just picture where each of you will be in 10 years. By then I'm sure that all of your hard work in school will have paid off in the form of a successful career %26amp; she will most likely be flipping burgers somewhere.





What comes around goes around!
You need to be the more mature person. Like you said you will ruin everything you have worked for. Is it worth it???


No way.


No one is worth hard work that you have done. Just remind yourself that and act like she doesnt even exist. You know you are the better person
Wait until school is out then kick her ***.
You have to ignore her. Ladies do not fight! Not very classy, it's actually VERY common and low-class to fight like peasants! Fighting is for losers who will never get ANYWHERE in life because they can't use their brain to get out of situations! Control yourself, you're a lady!
Just remember she's apparently a moron. Do what I do - smile sweetly and mentally give them the finger!
From what i'm seeing now The only real way is to let your pride down, and humble yourself beyond her Bull*hit. Fact of the matter is, You can't have a good future and all your respect. That's just the way it goes with school now-a-days. Sometimes a fight is inevitable. People putting hands on you and there is no one to stop them, But you. Don't let anyone tell you differently, this is YOUR LIFE YOUR DECISION. If they're f*cking with YOUR BODY, you can do anything you need to to set the situation right. I used to let people humiliate the *hit out of me in school, and I'd just be thinking in my head ';ok, keep on doing sh*t ok keep on, you'll see'; and after class when there was no outward consequences, I showed them what the definition of an injury was. Don't let anyone tell you that her life is going to go bad and yours will go good when you focus on schoolwork because I see plenty of heathens that were as*holes in highschool that are still balling now. Corporate america is based on free enterprise, not employees. You can get fired from the job you studied hard for just like she can. Or even worse she could inherite money or anything positive could befall her just like anyone else. Just like LOVE and WAR, LIFE ISN'T FAIR. You've got to make YOUR LIFE right, for no one else will do it for you. Not the police, and Not anyone else. If you're willing to F*ck your reputation, you can let her mess and then go get her ninja style later, No witnesses, No evidence. I used to do it that way and I'm not sorry, I have no criminal record, My High school reputation doesn't mean sh*t now that i'm In college, and everything is going well. this depends on what you plan to do. if you need your rep further on in life, get that b*tch, but if you think your futures more important and you want to do this one religiously that's up to you. School Faculty don't give a sh*t about you regardless of what they say their job title is ESPECIALLY not the dean. His Job is to get kids in trouble, if not he looks like he's not doing any work. Student advisors and all of that don't know what it's like to deal with these situations themselves. This is your life. It's a simple self question: what's more important to you; your future and schoolwork or Your friends and respect? Pick one and follow through.
Tell your school police officer. Do NOT get in a fight. An assualt charge on your record can ruin your chances for jobs and colleges.
Sounds like you already know that she's not worth what you have to loose. Fighting is never cool, especially among females. It's just makes you look trashy. You just have to realize how pathetic she is, and let it go. She obviously has no other reasonable way to deal with her anger -- don't get sucked in.


About a month ago, a woman in Panera Bread got nasty with me and tried to pick a fight. I just laughed at her. I told her (as I looked her up and down) that it was obvious she was a very unhappy person, and that trying to take out her self-loathing on others wasn't going to get her anywhere. She stood there with her mouth hanging open while I left with my bagels.





Good luck dealing with this looser.
remove yourself from the situation...calm down...ignore her
Nothing. If you do anything it will only lower you to that standard. Plus she will think that she has won the ';battle.'; Just walk away and take out your anger on something positive, like sports.