Monday, August 9, 2010

How do you get even with someone?

My friend in school, recently has had half of the years girls onto her, (that's about 50), and ganged up on her over something she didn't do. Now they do this to everyone one by one. And i want to get the ringleader. I don't think she understands how she makes others feel , and i want to show her! How do you get even with someone?
First, move on and put yourself above this group of trash-talkers.





Whatever you do, don't go on a vendetta, because it is not good for your mind, your body, or your well being. If you learn to ignore people like that, you will fare very well in life, because you will not get mixed up in the drama that keeps most people from ever attaining success in their lifetime. Not just monetary success, but success in relationships, friendships, and life in general.How do you get even with someone?
You move on.





Anger is not going to help you, and neither is revenge. It sucks, but believing in karma will help. I believe in it, not because of the spiritual aspect, but just because, if you're going to be a b*tch, it will come back to haunt you. i.e. No one will like you, it will be harder to get a job, whatever. Tell your friend that it's terrible that this happened to her, but try to help her put it behind her, instead of picking the scab.
You COULD hurt her physically but it wouldnt show her in the long term. Hurt her emotionally/mentally and it will stick with her for life. Boys can hurt girls deep and emotionally, could take a long time but have a male friend act like hes interested in her and after a while she will fall for him. Then have him break her heart. Evil :) Or just spread the rumour shes got crabs
If contemplating violence that is never the right thing. It will only make things worse.





In my life I have learnt that there is no need to get even, when people do an injustice they get theirs eventually.





Better to steer clear.
Even-there is no even...


There is showing you care-by being upset and doing dumb stuff.


AND there is not giving away your Control by not caring.


Guess which one leave them breathless...


Right-Don't care....


NOW- show them they are not an important part of your life and keep your control!
agree with answer one. Or you can do reverse psychology and be overly nice to the wench
call your sisters, cousins and run down on that girl the hood way
embarass her and make her feel like a very low p.o.s in front of people. that is the worst

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